tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post7669844763846530543..comments2023-06-10T01:11:06.946-07:00Comments on SILENT SCREAMS: The measure of a man...'Yar Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05839366950872841588noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-59582884483660503452009-09-07T05:12:15.259-07:002009-09-07T05:12:15.259-07:00you have a husband made from heaven
i am so glad
y...you have a husband made from heaven<br />i am so glad<br />you left your first husband'<br /><br />being a furniture (a trophy) is sad''<br /><br />send me ur email<br />mine is tishasmith010@yahoo.comlatishababyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07398866935482595322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-36025801180238662292008-06-07T10:30:00.000-07:002008-06-07T10:30:00.000-07:00Wow! I'm so touched. God bless u and ur husband.Wow! I'm so touched. God bless u and ur husband.Aijayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14665725459484396982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-41685736274648686622008-05-20T06:40:00.000-07:002008-05-20T06:40:00.000-07:00With 69 comments.....i sure can add nothing more.B...With 69 comments.....i sure can add nothing more.<BR/><BR/>But, i daresay....to a noble husband, i doff.rethotshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09863776336604295843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-29941319404933043652008-05-12T06:38:00.000-07:002008-05-12T06:38:00.000-07:00Hope you get better soon. First time here and love...Hope you get better soon. First time here and love it!<BR/><BR/>This was so nice to read, not all men are the same. It restores my faith that there is someone out there who will treat you like a jewel.<BR/><BR/>You are blessed and have a wonderful man beside you.<BR/><BR/>Get well soon xxJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06064246506516947635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-79557501148467050362008-05-07T10:57:00.000-07:002008-05-07T10:57:00.000-07:00ohh and I hope your recovering speedily from your ...ohh and I hope your recovering speedily from your surgeryflawsandallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795688797177341328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-56599776786962561132008-05-07T10:56:00.000-07:002008-05-07T10:56:00.000-07:00omg..,.I got teary eyed reading this...baba here m...omg..,.I got teary eyed reading this...baba here my cry give a husband as caring as yarmama..lol..<BR/>but i am serious oh..you are blessedflawsandallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795688797177341328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-2346238671040592362008-05-07T00:54:00.000-07:002008-05-07T00:54:00.000-07:00Wonderful words. You make me realise that sometime...Wonderful words. You make me realise that sometimes we take great things for granted.........<BR/><BR/>Loving ya blogA Kel called Wonder ......https://www.blogger.com/profile/09443040218710048674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-84884241811023674332008-05-05T12:07:00.000-07:002008-05-05T12:07:00.000-07:00Perfect ....the post says it all and more. You hav...Perfect ....the post says it all and more. You have a loving and caring husband who adores you...that's the way it should be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-9783326962357346362008-05-04T04:51:00.000-07:002008-05-04T04:51:00.000-07:00Yar Mama trailed you to your blog . Quite an excit...Yar Mama trailed you to your blog . Quite an exciting prospect it is to increase my education. <BR/><BR/>I feel your husband approach has nothing to do with your luck but everything to do with his character evolution. It most likely traced to the relations with his love teachers i.e. the women in his formative years especially mother, grandmother et al. I however hope his role is neither predictable nor completely domesticated. It is too simplistic to award titles of good and bad men based on how much they fulfill their partners expectations. Love is not just affection it is the pain, happiness and discovery of actualising growth towards a fulfilling purpose.<BR/><BR/>Take the man who did not by recharge card for his wife and was clearly not engaged in showing express concern for her health. You are probably right about his approach to her but you spent too little time to truly understand the dynamics of their relationship. There is more to their relationship than the time they passed with you. Is it possible that this man is got serious psychological issues with hospitals but masks it with indifference and detachment?<BR/><BR/>There is a lot to correct about the treatment of women especially in Nigeria but we need to engaged in a nuanced as well as deep understanding of what, why and how or else we replace one failing approach with another simplistic solution.<BR/><BR/> I am happy for you that you have a life partner that understands your love language and complements your expectations. Insallah you will be both at the twilight of life showered in that same feeling of fulfillment, dignity, mutual respect and love that is there today. <BR/><BR/>Ire OOnibudohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03984318585047572787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-65098737601192327462008-04-22T07:25:00.000-07:002008-04-22T07:25:00.000-07:00HMMMyou are lucky to have him dear and i am happy ...HMMM<BR/><BR/>you are lucky to have him dear and i am happy for you.<BR/><BR/>how are you doing now? Good i guess?darkelceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08819761365097293555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-40495385178995372382008-04-19T12:27:00.000-07:002008-04-19T12:27:00.000-07:00wow!!! this was the first word dat i could say wen...wow!!! this was the first word dat i could say wen i read ur profile....<BR/><BR/>...U REALLY MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING GOOD IN UR YOUTH.....we all pray to have husbands as caring and understanding as urs, u're really blessed my dear and he is also blessed to have such a strong woman like you.<BR/><BR/>stumbled on ur blog while doin my usual blog rounds and i thank God i clicked that button. <BR/><BR/>by the grace of God i SHALL be a regular here.<BR/><BR/>God bless u and pls for pple like me who need motivation from pple like you......DONT GO ANYWHERE.....Engeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00701891870901829469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-63349655687673586742008-04-18T20:26:00.000-07:002008-04-18T20:26:00.000-07:00Awwww, you brought tears to my eyes. What a man (x...Awwww, you brought tears to my eyes. What a man (x3), what a mighty good man.. a la salt n pepa!7https://www.blogger.com/profile/14180251985849435727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-30114634390448912562008-04-16T10:19:00.000-07:002008-04-16T10:19:00.000-07:00Awwwwwwwww!!!Ur man's such a honeybunch *making mu...Awwwwwwwww!!!<BR/><BR/>Ur man's such a honeybunch *making mushyfaces*<BR/><BR/>how are u now? hope u are back on ur feet.<BR/><BR/>thank God for u, u have put a new angle to my cynical view of marriage and female Emancipation.I'm happy u freed urself from the "shackles" of tradition and revitalised urself too.<BR/><BR/>may God help that other woman!six children for a buffon! <BR/><BR/>pls update, i intend to learn from you.<BR/><BR/>off to read the other posts and comments....Smaragdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12986342471593235987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-76852189055167309692008-04-15T12:47:00.000-07:002008-04-15T12:47:00.000-07:00The story of ur man sent thrills of excitement thr...The story of ur man sent thrills of excitement through my body...u have a good man. :)Jennifer A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618639466963813761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-38926466411684679902008-04-15T12:43:00.000-07:002008-04-15T12:43:00.000-07:00Hmmm...first time on ur blog and I'm loving the wa...Hmmm...first time on ur blog and I'm loving the way u express urself. Will be back when u update...Jennifer A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618639466963813761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-27720712389835037752008-04-14T04:10:00.000-07:002008-04-14T04:10:00.000-07:00dayum girl!!! u cld be describing my husband ;-)i ...dayum girl!!! <BR/>u cld be describing my husband ;-)<BR/>i had my appendix removed in 06 nad he showed up with flowers every single day, after work, in that traffic, the nurses and doctors had a great time laughing at my then fiance, but the room looked and felt great!!-this was in naija o, i tripped...<BR/>love ur blog<BR/>zhala duschampsW2bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01150221361740278896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-19213474919088072402008-04-09T20:51:00.000-07:002008-04-09T20:51:00.000-07:00This was absolutely lovely to read. The key remain...This was absolutely lovely to read. The key remains to show appreciation to the ones you love, right? If your huband ever reads this, I am sure he will realize (not that he doesn't already), how much you love, cherish and respect him.<BR/><BR/>Congrats and may God bless!SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-61223000680016189632008-04-09T10:37:00.000-07:002008-04-09T10:37:00.000-07:00@toky, very funny!@toky, very funny!BacktoNaijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214572735020254575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-64782698885526055392008-04-09T10:35:00.000-07:002008-04-09T10:35:00.000-07:00I wrote a comment some days back, but apparently ...I wrote a comment some days back, but apparently blogger didn't like it, but am not to be deterred! I wanted to say that your post was stuck in my mind for days as I've been thinking about the M word for a while and the seeming deterioration of the institution. But your post was absolutely inspiring. thanks for sharing!BacktoNaijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214572735020254575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-215670649347591632008-04-05T04:33:00.000-07:002008-04-05T04:33:00.000-07:00its so nice to know that you share one thing in co...its so nice to know that you share one thing in common with my wife...God sent husbands. so happy for u girl!Tokyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12853071627890465467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-19633996297982611232008-04-05T02:43:00.000-07:002008-04-05T02:43:00.000-07:00the best thing about it all is that you know what ...the best thing about it all is that you know what you have and you appreciate it.<BR/><BR/>you know as i read this post i remembered i read your story about how you met your hubby on bella niajas page...you're one blessed lady.<BR/><BR/>hope you're much better now.Joy Akuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11208651697541850438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-91011095464418427822008-04-04T05:24:00.000-07:002008-04-04T05:24:00.000-07:00hope u feeling beta.learnt the hard way the true m...hope u feeling beta.<BR/><BR/>learnt the hard way the true measure of a man ain't physical but much deeper. <BR/><BR/>stay stronger and keeo connection wit your manBunmmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867581503419551174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-71105036883195227252008-04-04T02:27:00.000-07:002008-04-04T02:27:00.000-07:00'Ya mama,Thanks for the beautiful comments you lef...'Ya mama,<BR/>Thanks for the beautiful comments you left on my blog.You are such a great woman.Little wonder God blessed you with a nice husband.Keep being the best you can be.AustynZOGShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13123134780197390202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-84684632141653053802008-04-02T14:40:00.000-07:002008-04-02T14:40:00.000-07:00I hope your story gets the 'bella naija' prize.You...I hope your story gets the 'bella naija' prize.You need to re-edit it and give us the full details.I'm waiting.......Mrs Somebodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12561707732780018474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5551262644538051668.post-45604311370811144992008-04-02T09:43:00.000-07:002008-04-02T09:43:00.000-07:00I just discovered your blog while I was going thro...I just discovered your blog while I was going through some other blogs. I am a Hausa woman in her early twenties and I must say I respect you a lot. Going through a failed married at a very tender age and yet finding the courage to leave and BECOME..It's stories like yours that make me just say Masha Allah...You're a very srong Hausa woman and unfortunately a lot of us aren't like that..For me, just because I express my opinions, people say it's because I school outside the country so I've adopted the views of 'turawa' but this is far from true because right from a very young age, I've always been liberal..Anyway back to you again, You have a wonderful husband who is one in a million. I'm assuming he's a northerner (you know how our men can be), that's why i say one in a million..I think you should write a book because from what I've read so far, you've been through an amazing journey in life..Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14947731785332613617noreply@blogger.com